Getting Through Bad Days with Harley the Healing Cat by Sarah Abyss | Inspiring Story #135 -

Getting Through Bad Days with Harley the Healing Cat by Sarah Abyss | Inspiring Story #135

 On bad days Sarah struggles to do everyday things many take for granted. In this story, she shares how healing can be found in the most surprising places ...

I should have been happy.  Living in a huge house with my partner, surrounded by his loving family.  There was a time when a life full of love like this was unimaginable for me …

I grew up the only child of two severely mentally ill parents.  My mom was considered developmentally challenged.  The system labeled her "retarded" - and yes, I hate that word too –that’s what they called her.  I was taken from my parents and placed with relatives.

Instead of taking care of me, I was physically, mentally, and sexually abused.  Three years of torture left me with trauma-induced PTSD, agoraphobia, and a slew of other alphabet-twisting diagnoses.  I walked with a cane, a telltale sign of my later diagnosis of Multiple Sclerosis (MS).

Now, for the first time in my life, despite my disability, I had everything I dreamed of.  I was surrounded by happiness … but still, I couldn't face daily activities.  Getting up in the morning seemed impossible.

Introducing Harley  

My birthday was coming up - February 2nd.  My partner and I were preparing to move into our own place.  Terrified of big change but excited about going into our own home for the first time, I decided a kitten would be a perfect gift for my birthday.  My partner agreed, and there began my search for a solid black kitten.

Despite hours of searching, I couldn't find a single kitten meeting my strict criteria - solid black and cute.  Four days later, I found a lady who had a litter of ‘oops’ kittens that all needed homes. I immediately fell in love with a tuxie.  I named her Harlequin Elaine Jager.  She goes by Harley for short.

Harley was thrust into my arms on February 3rd. I wrapped her in a pink baby blanket.  From the moment we met, it was love.  I would give Harley love and care.  Harley would bring me love, loyalty, and healing...

Harley and My Bad Days

On mornings I can barely walk, Harley looks into my eyes. She speaks, “meow”.  I’m reminded that she can't feed herself.  I get out of bed. 

On days I cry, Harley sits on my chest as if offering her silky fur to dry my tears.  When I am stressed, Harley drapes herself around my neck like a mink wrap.  She purrs until I give her belly raspberries. She’ll grab her purrito and bunny kick it across the room.  I laugh, and all those feel-good endorphins are triggered.  

She helps me push past the bad days … and the difficult nights.

Through nights of insomnia and pain, Harley sits beside me, begging for pets.  The touch of her fur as I stroke her back is soothing, like a glass of warm milk.  Soon I yawn and fall asleep to the sound of her purr.

Harley continues to be a healing force in my life.  She helped me with the stress of moving into our new place.  When I lost my mother-in-law, she sat with me in my grief.  When I was diagnosed with MS, she was there, ready to snuggle, purr, and comfort me. She gave me the ability to keep living.  That's not something I could find in a pill, a therapist, or another human.

Maybe there is someone who, like me, has been hurt so badly by humans; they find it hard to understand why they are even here.  You’re not alone; you’re worth the fight. Healing can be found in everyday situations – maybe somewhere we may not have thought about looking.   Like I found healing with Harley.  

You don't know what tomorrow holds. The only way to find out is to do everything you can to be there.  Don't let trauma choose the end of your story. Write your own ending. 

Harley’s helping me write mine. 



About the Author - Sarah Abyss

Sarah describes herself as a cat lover, and fellow human struggling to keep on going.  To connect with Sarah, please leave a comment for her below.  

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  • Karletta Marie says:

    Sarah, your story deepened my understanding for what many who face health challenges go through everyday.

    You brought a smile to my face as I thought of my dear cat Puff who seems to show up right on time – whenever I’m feeling sick or down.

    Thank you for sharing

  • Jenny says:

    Animals are wonderful aren’t they? We currently have a dog and he just seems to know exactly what kind of day we’ve had and what we need from him.

  • Natalie says:

    I adopted my dog that same month earlier this year and she is such a light in my life! Pets are the best 🙂

  • Rhian Westbury says:

    Pets, and cats especially, are such great companions and I really feel like they know when you need a bit of extra love. I’ve had a few doctors/ hospital appointments which I’ve felt a bit rubbish after and the cats seem to know and snuggle up next to me which always makes me smile x

  • Joanna says:

    Pets are such powerful companions that can help us go through rough days. Indeed, Harley can’t feed herself, they depend on us and we on them to make us smile.

  • Anosa says:

    What an incredible story and agree Animals do have a way of healing people.

  • I have always been a firm believer in animals helping. I have dogs and whenever any of us our down or feeling ill, they are always there showing they care

  • Smiley says:

    Thank you for sharing your story. I’m a mental health writer and advocate and an Overcomer with a Smile. I created the PTSD: My Story Project, a safe space for trauma survivors to share their story. I believe that stories have a power. Thank you for sharing yours. Trauma doesn’t define us. Best wishes! @journeyofsmiley

  • Nishtha says:

    Beautiful & touching! I agree that living fully in the present and looking forward for a better tomorrow is important

  • Thanks for sharing your story and inspire people who are going through hard times. I pray for your continuous healing, inside and out. Send my hugs to Harley.


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